tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-757498959777165937.post6052503360596678878..comments2024-01-25T07:44:26.709+08:00Comments on Royal Domesticity by Denise Rayala: Today Could've Been My First Year Back At WorkDenisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04669860244043023150noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-757498959777165937.post-82737234512613951472018-03-12T22:55:57.087+08:002018-03-12T22:55:57.087+08:00No worries, Ms.D..our choice of staying at home fo...No worries, Ms.D..our choice of staying at home for our child/ren will never be worthless. Take heart! 💓Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-757498959777165937.post-52526014838863200962018-03-09T08:24:38.569+08:002018-03-09T08:24:38.569+08:00Ako, I never had a real career. Nka pag trabaho ak...Ako, I never had a real career. Nka pag trabaho ako ng 3 months lang, kasi nlaman ko buntis na ako kay Jb that time kaya I resigned din agad. Tapos d na ako nakabalik ng trabaho, gusto ko din sana i pursue ung isang dream ko na kurso pero d ko rin maiwan anak ko. Kahit alam ko andyan naman nanay ko to take care of him. Siguro ganito tayo na mga nanay, if given the chance na papipiliin tayo kung career o mga anak, anak talaga. Unless we really need to work para may pagkakitaan at para buhayin anak natin. We are lucky we have husband na understanding at very supportive kung ano gusto natin. Enjoy nalang natin maging Mommy.. thank you for sharing :) zoanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17023463181253512706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-757498959777165937.post-81378219671410593822018-03-08T17:12:04.798+08:002018-03-08T17:12:04.798+08:00I feel you. I am also a SAHM. It has been 6 - 7 ye...I feel you. I am also a SAHM. It has been 6 - 7 years since I left my job. My pregnancy that time is so complicated. I was forced to take a bed rest for a month. Mag reresign na dapat ako sa work pero hindi ko maasikaso because of my condition kaya awol ang naging ending. When I gave birth to my daughter, sabi ko sa sarili ko, ang dami kong hirap na pinagdaanan sa kanya kaya bakit ko papa alaga lang siya sa ibang tao. I have an option to go back to work but like you, i also choose to stay. And that was the best decision ever. Yes, nawalhan ako ng career and stable income. But ang ganda naman ng kapalit. Nakakasama ko everyday anak ko. Though every day is not easy. May times na nag aaway kami ng anak ko. But part of parenting naman yun. May ups and downs talaga. Atleast marami kaming moments. I remember 2 years ago, papasok na siya sa preschool, nag apply ako work and surprisingly, natangap ako. Sabi ko pwede na ako mag work kasi preschooler na siya so pwede na iwan sa mga lola. But nung inenroll ko siya and nakita ko curriculum ng school, nagulat ako kasi nursery pero ang daming subjects. Hindi kaya ng mga lola niya yun tuturuan pa siya. So ang ending, hindi ako nag contract signing. Ayun, SAHM ulit. But okay lang kasi natuturuan ko siya so ang ganda ng performance niya sa school. For me, ayun na yun parang reward. Wala nga ako new work pero matataas naman grades ng anak ko plus okay social interactions niya with her classmates. So happy na rin ako. Yes, i know nakakamiss mag work. Nakaka miss makipag interact with other people na same age mo and same interests mo. Pero naisip ko, pag nag work ako, marami ako mamimiss na moments with my daughter. And narealize ko, yun everyday moments or bonding ko with my daughter, hindi mapapalitan yun ng career or pera. Minsan lang silang bata kaya enjoy na natin na tayo ang kasama kasi baka paglaki, iba na prefer nila na kasama. Kaya create memories, good or bad, okay lang kasi atleast may bonding kayong 2. So stop overthinking, and just enjoy being a mother to your kids. :)Patricianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-757498959777165937.post-44023134507110197412018-03-08T16:25:30.094+08:002018-03-08T16:25:30.094+08:00Parehas tayo Ms. D. I wanted to go back to work pe...Parehas tayo Ms. D. I wanted to go back to work pero hindi na din kaya ng heart ko na iwan ang daughter ko sa mother ko na alam kong mahihirapan din sa pag aasikaso sa kanya kase nag i-school na sya. Plus alam ko na hindi nya maasikaso daughter ko the way I wanted. Hiring a yaya for her is not an option anymore after our bad experience with her past yaya. Hindi din decision ng husband ko na mag stop ako. Pero sinuportahan naman nya ang decision ko. Sometimes, nararamdaman ko din na ako lang may gustong magstop for my daughter. Plus minsan, nararamdaman ko na nanghihinayang ang mother ko kase sayang daw ang ipinagpaaral nya sa akin at ang license ko (CPA ako). What to do? Alam ko kailangan ako ng anak ko. Im just praying na sana dumating yong time na mapakita ko sa kanila na tama yong decision ko at sana lumaking maayos, masaya at mabuting tao ang anak ko. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com